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October 15th, 2009 in (Definitions)

A long ticket but who will not be even exhaustive!

Then, even if I put in the title of this ticket " my advice " , I am the first one to be said you: do not listen to advice of others and make as you smell him, as you want. Including at first, for the choice of the type of feeding!
It is you and a bit your man also that this looks, others, they make fun of their opinion it is not them who are going to try to feed your baby round the clock!

But unfortunately, even once your performed choice, it will be necessary to make in any case with the advisers not payers who never belong agreed between them.

And this begins from motherhood with this small personal example:

Pediatric nurse n 1 enters your room, looks at the small picture of the hours of suckling and cries by seeing that baby sleeps for more than 3 hours (for your biggest happiness): But madam! It is necessary to awaken him there to feed him!
One hour later, baby struggles to suckle, you despair, thinking that your milk is not good or that you do not have it enough (or I do not know what other b tise). Pediatric nurse n 2 arrives, asks you if this goes, you explain him that you awakened baby to feed him and that since he wants to take nothing, cries, gets worked up. She answers you of course: but you should not awaken him let us see! If he is hungry, he wakes up! There you confused his rhythm of sleep.

And vl' year not only you have you any forgery, but in more just put in it the bazaar in its sacro holy rhythm of sleep!

Elements for me essential for a good feeding:

- well be encircled: fall on wise women and pediatric nurses who will be able to show you good position in the breast without being taken for a machine, it is not so simple, then, do not hesitate to have your neighbour helped by other moms (perhaps just of room!), because good catch in mouth of the t ton by the baby am essential.
Roughly, baby must be well facing the breast, the belly doubles your and he must take all nipple, if he takes badly and begins suckling, oh well, take away, by slipping your little finger between its mouth and the breast. Then, repositionez.

- drink, then attention too too much either 1ers days (do not make as me I was with breast in concrete, painful hyper and in more the baby blow did not any more succeed in suckling!). There is not photo: to have some milk, it is necessary to drink. Think of herbal tea, this changes the fleet a bit and then the fennel can also help in lactation and in digestion of the baby t teur.

- have a rest the most possible. I know it is bloody stupid, it is easy to say all this, but it is secret (with the drink). More than once in party, the baby if ennervait on my breast, he was practically empty a friend recommended me to hand over 30/45 minutes, to go to have a rest and to drink a schooner. Oh well, this walked!

- arrest serenely the famous peaks of growth: 3 weeks, 3 months, these are the famous instants extremist difficult where baby is more going to complain. During 4 or 5 days, you feel having no more milk, the baby asks more often, he cries, seems to miss DO NOT SPLIT. It is normal! It is necessary to stimulate lactation and some days will just be needed so that your body includes new request and fits. In the meantime they hold out and complement to the bib is not especially given! Where then at the same time, you will have to stimulate your breast with a breast pump, otherwise, your body will never put on with good rhythm and your feeding will be compromised.

- make confidence: I know, this also it is easy to say, but it is essential, you are the mom, you know. Baby is hungry 45 minutes after the last suckling, you are supposed to wait 2 hours? Give the breast him if you want it! Feeding it is first of all suppleness!
I often had a way the head with this question, when with the man, they looked, halting  yes but if you give again to him now, this is going not to upset its digestion?  ,  at the same time, she seems to complain still  , what is made?

- dispel id e re ue and not be pointed! OK, I am perhaps going to accept the wraths of the "pros" feeding, but my experience proves that at least for my children, I am right. They had told me to pay attention to motherhood, at night, that they give a nursing bottle Roughly, the nursing bottle is the trouble. And good I came back there! For Choupie, I was flipp e: she weighed only 2kg700 and the pressure in motherhood was quickly put in me (where I stayed one week) so that she gains weight bibs of complement was offered me. I refused by "fright" in comparison with what I had heard. Suddenly, I had a hard time well (but I succeeded).
Oh well for the choupinou, 3kg700, I made completely diff rement! They gave him nursing bottles of complement at night and I also confess to have given him one the day during some days, just before the weighing why? Because I wanted only a thing: that he quickly gains weight to be able to go out!
Oups
Ba yeah
Oh well it did not cause my feeding to fail!

- do not lose view that even the persons who are supposed any connaitre can say big stupidity.
My pediatrician in the visit of 3 months of my flea asks me what I give him from now on as milk, I say to him "mine" ! He looks at me bizarement and says to me to me  but you still have some milk?  (Ba yes my guy, of course!), and he tightened me a booklet on Novalac!
It will never be said rather also: your milk is in 99,9 % cases "token" for your baby and a nursed baby do not take the poid same that a baby in the nursing bottle. Then, once again: STOP IN EASY MAKING GUILTY, let say, if baby eats, sleeps and wets his layer regularly: it is because EVERYTHING GOES WELL.

To you all, thank you for your different comments, my articles were not of course complete, because experiments, there are as much as moms and babies.

I remind therefore to finish that for my part, Choupie was nursed 8 months (in which 5 exclusive she did not want the nursing bottle, I put 1 whole month to make him take: THE galley) and choupinou "only " 3 months among which 2 months exclusive (tiredness was right of me, I preferred the simplicity of the nursing bottle, I confess). I loved nursing and I had on the whole a lot of chance because no worries person over 18.

Tomorrow, one take back a normal activity on this blog! They spoke enough of let us nest!

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