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August 12th, 2008 in (Blow of face, mom's Marathon)

1 and a half week when they are again 4 at our place and ALREADY I cannot there any more

The weekend was hard.

Then in this mixture of feelings (guilt of not not arrive at it , tiredness, joy, anger, responsibility.) who affects my small brain these days, I wondered on Sunday evening before falling asleep: it is what the worst?

- to get up EVERY day, week, weekend and including holiday, at dawn in the sound of the tears of the dribbling.

- to intend to chouiner ALL day long the "big" for one yes or for one not: ouinnnn I succeed not in putting my trousers , ouinnnnnnn I know not in what to play , ouinnnnnn I am thirsty , ouinnnnnn this hurts in my shoe . BUT HUSHED UP ACE NEED OF CHOUINER FOR THIS? YOU ASK For It SIMPLE EAST HOWEVER!

- to clean the pigsty in fund the table to be eaten, the soil, chairs in surroundings after EVERY meal: pot of glue discovers joy to eat with fingers as a big all alone at present, what is a good thing, of course, but that also discovers bursts it complete that to hesitate is everything by top edge, piece of chow, beaker of water or complete plate!

- to be able to have a rest no more than 20 minutes (yes I know it is already well) at the time of siestas because the one lies down very early (12 h 15 max of max) and other one does not simply want to make any more siesta and agrees AT BEST to stretch out in his bed some minutes before making a boucan of Hell and therefore awakening his brother and us at the same time.

- to be possible nothing make others than to take care of gnomes: exchange rate, meal, covering, session reading, games, walk in a finger in all flat

You will have understood him, I had a difficult weekend, Saturday two were bad hair, on Sunday the dribbling went better, very happily, but the cow is always difficult. Small depression I confess, I even saw myself lowering arms as last November when I was still on maternity leave and that I was to have to go to cause 2 words to the hard Doctor G Dur to take care of two babies. That of happiness: no! Of course I deeply like them, these are my tripes, but pur e to be able nothing to make others, not to can blow, to feel emptying from 10 h. I this depresses me, I would just like to be able sometimes the weekend settle 15 minutes with my book or on the computer. It is bloody stupid but it is vital!

Then of course, the worst it is what? It is not of course what I saw, because the worst it is not to succeed in having child for example or have to face up their illness. I cannot complain but it is not the desire which misses me it brothel! In these instants there, I confess to want in no way small 3rd, I assure him you! lol

Here to be mom it is not simple every day, it is even possible to enlarge to be parents (because zhom also suffers from this situation of course), this blog it is also to say it, this must be also good to read it because I know well that they cross very one day these feelings of failure and of tiredness.

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14 comments

Mamancelib says :

August 12th, 2008 in 8:24

And the same problems are met when they are solo parent, without anybody to take the relay when power 1000 is saturated

Ah the children what they are loved

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juju says :

August 12th, 2008 in 8:43

it is exactly what I ressenc from time to time and ca made by the good to know that they are not only in just to want etre. only by way of times
and me I am going to put the 2nd under way. that of happiness ^^

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Chocoladdict says :

August 12th, 2008 in 8:46

I recommend you to plan a weekend with your man without the children, even not willy-nilly very far but at least 2 days without them this no r soud problems no, they will be always there when you will come back but frankly to us this made us a lot of good to speak about everything except children, to be in lover.
Token otherwise e-Zabel, you do not encourage me the whole anymore to put under way second because frankly with the only one I am already well burst but this remains g rable)

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Peony says :

August 12th, 2008 in 9:01

Useless token to say that I feel the same thing but with the single rascal ;-)
He still makes consequent siestas after midday what allows me to have a rest (or to blog ahem )

But it is the routine which becomes leader to me, always the same gestures, the same things I stifle little.

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ratounette says :

August 12th, 2008 in 9:16

I get on well with you, I cannot say that I saw the meme thing, because it is not true.
I just espere that everything goes tres quickly to come back into order, tries to re-flog the trolls to the big parents and leaves a weekend in lover with your cheri, it will be good for you.
say to you that in qqs weeks the Choupie will go has the ecole and you are going to see she is going to calm down.

but pffttt you cut me any desire to have the deuxieme!
good courage my nice, I think very extremely has you!

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MissBrownie says :

August 12th, 2008 in 10:05

Obviously, we all live the same thing That there are 1 or 2 children
As you, at present the baby 3, it is niet!
Yes I who shouted high and extremely that I bore a grudge absolutely a 3rd and good he has is enough of 3 weeks of holiday so that I do not bear a grudge any more of the whole!
At present such a small fall of morale but more for the same reason than Peony.
Finally at home, it is big form

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Bleumarine says :

August 12th, 2008 in 10:31

But the girls, they quickly forget, all this! this passes! It is clear that they all knew this but good news is that there is a REAL improvement with age! (for some things) my children have 3,5 and almost (more than 4 beddy-byes) 6 years old. At the beginning in birth of bb2 they deeply told themselves n 3. Then bb2 a monster became and the idea in parentheses was put. Then there this changes again: monster 2 became more livable, they get used to the rhythm of 2 (I see each other again overwhelmed with one and this makes me laugh), they speak, walk, get dressed and eat only, this goes better!!!
Then e-Zabel, sad reality is that the children are by nature casaniers beings. THEY do not like changes, therefore when change there is (even of great type holiday) they make it you pay during qqs days. They also had this in our return of holiday: 2 monsters! Currently this goes better!
Other solution: separation of qqs days to blow in 2 needs to be able, but this is good!
Courage, go! To you ace reason to release tension in you here: the myth which of happiness has still the hard life, but them will overcome it!
Kisses!

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A Girl and The Cloth says :

August 12th, 2008 in 13:36

Good courage It is only a bad pass

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Said WAM :

August 12th, 2008 in 13:59

I understand.
We recovered our monsters which were on holiday at their big parents. We had 1 week of freedom.
Ah that of happiness to sleep in the morning, to go back to bed after the baby d j, to go to the museum, to the cinema, to leave on a head-butt, not to think any more of the organisation, not to look at its watch anymore in the bouylot by telling itself I have to get a move on to finish ca before going to search the children

And as during this week, I also made the greve of shopping, of kitchen and of household, well, wow, ca good.

At the end of the dream, return this morning to the grim reality. And still, heureuement that ambience is cool in the work in summer

Go, courage, in 10 years you will regret not being able to make calins in your boutouneux big and you batteras you to get outside them from their bed at midday!!!

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Diditete says :

August 12th, 2008 in 15:10

Bravo to you to dare to break the myth the children it is happiness !!!
Well not it ecstasy and bravo in passage to the moms / solos daddies is not every day, for whom I feel a lot of admiration and commiseration (also).
But in spite of tiredness, in the final I nevertheless feel happier today as mom!!!

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Babou says :

August 13th, 2008 in 13:55

I I have it whom one of the gnome and he has only 8 months but already he sometimes makes me completely mad! There more as he thinks only of walking now that he understood concept, it is less easy to leave him in his park too much for a long time, he prefers gamboling!!
Ahh made by the rascals who they said!!!
Go, roaches e-Zabel morale and let us get our courage from two hands, needs to tell itself that it is only a bad time to be sorry crossed!
And then I am in the opinion of Diditete, you have well every reason to say that the children, no, it is not only happiness!!!! it is also good hysterics!! grrrr

OK, there mine he sleeps, then I use it chuuuut no noise please

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e-Zabel says :

August 14th, 2008 in 8:19

@ Mamancelib: then there it is clear that I envy you in no way, to us at least, it is possible to relax a minimum even if ambience is very "tense in general in that case

@juju: yes I think that there are every the same feelings, but a 2nd it is really marvellous you know, it is fair yes more exhausting needs to disclaim not him

@chocoladdict: yes we need an instant in 2 it are clear, they think of it, they they think of it, but materially it is not simple but a cinema in 2 already last week and exit with friends was made, this was good

@Pivoine: routine it is dreadful, and the rascals love routine!

@ratounette: thank you this pleases me to read all your nice messages anyway

@MissBrownie: one to me also then it is not simple, in more you, them very brings closer really to courage

@Bleumarine: your comment is good for me in morale and sums up situation well! Thanks a lot I keep they forget! lol

@Une Girl and The Cloth: yes completely, deeply the next who will be more pink!

@WAM: a week of pure happiness! Since there is the 2nd, it was not made, but before, the cow often one week by ci thereabouts to my parents was left which foot! Now, to pass 2 groups it is more difficult suddenly, we have always at least one in arms there! lol

@Diditete: of nothing lol I am happy so also I reassure you, it is fair sometimes really very hard

@Babou: chuuuuuuut Roaches morale and as I said higher to juju, a 2nd it is nevertheless marvellous!! Do not hesitate too much!

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sophiekune says :

August 17th, 2008 in 15:23

Pur e, it is everything me this

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said isabelle :

August 20th, 2008 in 15:20

yes, but a friend of it with two said to me that it was very difficult at the beginning, but much easier afterwards (when they play together therefore, a little bigger )
you invest therefore for future, will have you full of time to read while they will play for two!!

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