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Rather than a gondola, I had a cockle as the pushchair which also made seat - auto and as my daughter is a shrimp, I had not to buy back seat - auto before its 9 months With the pushchair, I had therefore buy a cockle (instead of a gondola for when baby is small) and a hammock for when baby grows
Otherwise, for feeding, I recommend the ends of breast in silicone which saved my feeding when at the beginning I too much felt pain and especially the reading of the book on the feeding of Mary Thirion during the pregnancy.
Anyway, here is an useful post that I would have really liked to read when I was pregnant
token I I had taken the gondola it etait in a cockle which passed of the pushchair have the car in two clicks.
otherwise the motive above the bed and has proscribe, imagines you two seconds with a knack which turns, who makes noise and in the worst of cases am luminous.enervant not?
then when food diversification is begun, the babycook was me of a precious help!
Mary Thirion too, to read BEFORE bungled advice of the sages-women of motherhood (I also loved Young mom and lazy Baby, say to me who you are and Planet mothering). You forget (according to me) the scarf of NECESSARY porterage from the exit of checkmate if you want not to feel in the nude, report in the big missing belly no gondola at home (nor of microwaves besides) nor of pushchair used before three months. The scarf: made so perfectly joke for colics and tears of evening If it is the winter: one on - pyjamas to use in the scarf when they go out (with topcoat over), rather than a combi (better for the pushchair) the combi: take sizes always une/deux above, direct type of the 3/6 month if to deliver you at the end of August as mou (used from 0 to 6 months). Not to buy: the similar, the bag to be wrapped in swaddling clothes (often too big, especially if they nurse, and too seedy), angel's nest (great pretty but useless), nursing bottles when they nurse (not having used it, it is necessary to buy it back WITHOUT BPA), the pushchair combi if there is a seat - auto 0-18 kilogrammes (my case) and a scarf for the first months (my case), 600 done in air in the first one occas , I bought MCLAREN LIGHTER AND EASIER TO HANDLE! Voilou!
I join both comments of the top, for feeding, yes in the ends of breast in silicone which are not worth very expensive and when really you suffer, ca escape your feeding, yes madam. The reading of the book of Mary Thirion, yes also, it is present no-claims bonus.
Not in the motive because 1: you, ca are going to irritate you to go to delay him in every time and 2: the air of nothing, ca creates a dependency of type that now, when I have friends who come to sleep at home, they have to come with the musical night light without which poupoune am not possible go any more
finally I would add teats / lollipops / tototte, the name which you want! because the first days, seen the need of suction of some spitzes, if to you ace breast in stewed fruit, either you cut the little finger to give it to the small angel, or have you of teats!
And for the bath???!! needs to wash him the gnome! I I recommend a tub on feet because it is really the foot of step to have to squat in the tub and to break the back!!
As every good mom for first time I invested in the complete and sold retail more half on ebay because not used!! For example baby phones not useful especially if your at home makes 200 m the auricular thermometer not useful is better to remain in good old methods the humidifier of air that you pay the skin of buttocks anything of such as the bowl of water as e-Zabel the bed expensive mega umbrella from GRACCO but without a standard size and in whom you can not top up mattress of.Bref exact change in there expense of p pettes!!! FOR NOTHING..
I am not agreed for the babyphone, he saved the life of my son, its room estpeut etre has quotation of our but in journee it is has the comparing of the living room, meme without food in one 200 m2 he is very useful!
as for the thermometre, this my metier or not but me is takes the temperature only under the arm or in the ear the good hurdy-gurdy method is a bit violent I find
I had 2 tubs, traditional position was lengthened with tripods, great for the height.
BUT I very much liked " Pod " version :
- consumption of reduced great water
- water stays in the good temperature longer
- bebe has some water until shoulders and is well in heat
- one not much to hold him of the single hand and to rub soap him of other one
it is little impressionant at the beginning, but finally I found beep this for every baby. On the contrary from 7 months, I stopped because if baby holds sat well it is nicer the traditional to begin playing in the water
Knack it is because when any ca is achete they tell themselves that as ca, for the following there will be everything!
And well in fact in no way! I have bare recemment that as the arrival of the 2eme there is a list also! And it is in no way for the bebe, it is for big sound frere:
A bed of big to leave the bed with bar securis which goes well to every baby
A board to be tied derriere the landeau because I can not push 2 pushchairs moa
A carpet to be wrapped in swaddling clothes because with everything the miasmata which it rammene to me of the creche it has more the right to stretch out on the meme than its frere
A rehausseur for the table because the baby frere goes bientot to need the highchair
and it is again the ruins!
My bobos necessary 

- 1 z bulhamac who rocks him when he wakes up at night.
- 1 scarf of porterage.
- 1 skin of sheep and goodbye turbulettes!
- 1 backpack to wrap in swaddling clothes (that I have never had Mother Joy in spite of my order , I got from you a bag, I found this better than your backpack and what I still regret.
And the completely useless: a piece of furniture to be wrapped in swaddling clothes WITH INTEGRATED TUB.
The tub on foot is necessary when you have dwarf's bathroom (when you turns you you are taken the door), and that well on you had a nice Caesarian section.
Limps her has music is necessary here, a small blow the evening to sleep since their birth and ever needed to put them to sleep in the arm
For the only one who does not nurse milk distributor limps her when they are in ballade take not a lot of place and great practice is
Useless knack the great mixer of nursing bottle it is not to give and to agitate a nursing bottle never has talk about luxation of the elbow
It is a good summary. I think that the best advice which it is possible to give to the intendeds mummys is to their instinct, to listen to advice and to follow what is judged of good or of worse. What parried the basics is not to take into account comments sometimes aggressives of some persons of his circle.
For the material aspect, I find that the list is very complete Even if I am more reserved for the humidifier, which we use for strong hot season to diminish a bit the temperature of the room
Thank you for this article.
a friend had me preT square of earpieces q I made to him very fast (white nights, ear SCOTCH-TAPED to listen to the slightest noise to make sure q tt went well!!!), in the comparing, the baby cook remains an investment which amortises fast (always living I use it for my 2nd: compact, robust, practical apparatus (the only hitch: it is not possible to prepare big quantities).les cushions of feeding to NUK are very well, in beep because invisible and great absorbing (qd they are called "Margaret" qqs month, it is ideal!!!).
Perhaps envisage a lollipop. in case.
There is door also he baby that I tremendously used for 3rd knowing that n 1 was 3 and a half years old and n 2 was 21 months old. It was practical for small displacements.
Otherwise I completely agree with your list.
Pecks
I had a pushchair Graco the file of which bent down to make gondola but she was too big for our chest this pushchair!
They have therefore to change car!
For me the gondola is useless, even if my best friend uses only this for her 5-month-old daughter.
I prefer maxi corner divan with attached shelves.
And I preferred the scarf of porterage in the pushchair.
I ask the question of the scarf of porterage. For my first, I had bought a baby carrier which killed me the back. the scarf of porterage attracts me well but I also know myself and make knots in every direction while the baby is very small and fragile, I do not picture myself too much
The humidifier I was obliged to invest, they are heated by the soil therefore no radiator
You would have been able to put a humid towel on the soil you would have had the meme effect (finally I think??!!)
One carries baby!!!!! Essential and very practical!!!!!!! Even at home sometimes I put him indoors!!!!!
I was not fan of the pushchair, too bulky and too heavy, as soon as he could walk and well he walked, God gave him 2 legs undamaged then he uses it a point it is everything.
swaddling clothes for regurgitations and rototo not just to have to get changed 5 times a day.le babycook when it grows to be able to make the pur e and the stewed fruits oneself without being taken the head on the contrary I did not wait 5 months to put in him something else than pyjamas, am I a fashion victim?)
bah you make me a twinkle there?
I collapse under lists baby in the motherhood, baby at home, baby eats, baby sleeps
List also for Mister urgent less urgent
cradle sterilise rented: OK
1 bed with bars: OK mattress OK
1 table to be wrapped in swaddling clothes: OK with integrated tub
1 body in crossed closing and 1 pyjamas a day of the week OK
babygros, Sleep, please, so that the baby who will be indoors sleeps! I have a great time!) NASTY GOES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I am embedded for BB2 in various and various terminology but for BB1 I indeed rowed!
3 keepings EASY TO BE THREADED: they forget the knack which passes by the head OF COURSE
- 1 product for the exchange rate, 1 product for the bath and 1 moisturizer YES I HAVE EVERYTHING!!!!
- 2 gigoteuses; conscript " turbulette can also be. OK
And ask me not why in motherhood they are under a cover GOOD QUESTION, the SAME REFLEXION TO PUT IT DOWN
- Nursing bottles or for feeding: one draws milk, of cushions and a healing cream OK
- One heats nursing bottle if you do not have microwave NOT I GO TESTED MY BREAST
- 1 LENGTHENED pushchair + gondola OK
- 1 auto seat was adapted, I HAVE NO CAR
- Some DouDoux and rattles coloured OK
- 1 luminous motive and with SOFT musics OK
- 1 transat It EAST IN THE URGENT LIST OF DARLING
Completely useless in my sense:
- true keepings of small men or small girls before 5 months WELL A BIT NEVERTHELESS I REGRETTED THE PHOTOS OF MY DAUGHTER IN pyj WHEN THEY WERE OF EXIT DRESSES ARE IF LITTLE KISSES
- a sterilizer A to SEE THIS ANIMAL TO BE SO NOT SOLD RETAIL BY MY SISTER
- a humidifier of air! I HAVE IT NOT
- the bag to be wrapped in swaddling clothes: I CRACKED FOR THE PENGUIN OF SAMSONITE YESTERDAY, I COULD RESIST.
AND TO BE DELIGHTED WHEN THEY HAVE THE VERY SOFT BELLY AND THAT THEY ARE SCOCHEE AT HOME IN FULL FEEDING THEY ARE TAKEN WHAT TO CHEER ITSELF UP MORALE??????????
THANK YOU E-ZA FOR THIS CHECK UP!!!!
To be delighted a chocolate bar, by crying has half, because belongs not as ca that they are going to lose a part of soft belly since it is going to be transformed in bold
I, my consolation at the end of day, this was Magnums almonds.
Upon the return to motherhood, by managing Elder brother of 3 years (its fads, its need of attention, its fits of rage) and BB2 all day, I needed a soft compensation. I repeat, Mi*ko allowed me not to split morally. OK, of course, my friends Padding flosses and Cellulitis say to me "Thank you " .
As for the scarf of porterage, this was necessary to me (thanks to my big sister for this born present) and 17 months later, there is not pushchair still at home.
Something else than they had not recommended me for the feeding and who would well have me servi:des support force-feed 100 % with feeding cotton and without sewing which passes at the level of the nipple!!!
The miracle cover of Red Caslte. Discovered for my 3rd. It is the principle of the emmaillotage that avoids to the baby to wake up when there is a start. From blow the baby wakes up less at night and has less opportunity to tell himself that he is hungry. This allowed to my miss to make its nights at about 6 weeks against much more late for his two ain s. He parried that it is also efficient against colics. I know not because she did not have it. Anyway I recommend, this costs about 20 . I found that it was a great investment for the nights of the parents
Ah nice idea that here is! And completely of actu for me also I am in general ok with the comments of the top. I think that in the useless there is also great mega special garbage can anti-smell (to turn after every swaddling clothes), that they did not buy, at the advice of our friends, because it is expensive, inconvenient and completely ineffectual! If they want a bathroom which does not smell the garbage can with swaddling clothes every day is emptied!
Qqch that I I thought practical (and inexpensive!): thing to be put in the tub, how they say: support-baby? Just to have a free hand in case of turbulent baby!
For our n 3, the list will be no list, except for those who want, a participation in pieces of furniture for the new rooms of the big!
Pooh I am not too OK for the garbage can with layers Personally I have one of it and I find that it works rather very even after diversification!
For the pushchair, I had taken a great pushchair which does not become any more support, but that made landeau, without gondola has top up over. And for the car, the corner divan with attached shelves which could go on this pushchair. At our place, no gondola by car (question security), my children always have ete in the corner divan with attached shelves, then adapted seats, face has the road live broadcasting for big crossed 9 kg, and back has the road in the debut as the baby, because is 6 months old it did not hold deja any more in the corner divan with attached shelves
The breast pump I do not think that it is necessary has buy: it is possible to rent an electrical in chemist's shop, with a prescription of the doctor, and it is reimbursed.
Otherwise, via the site http://www.grandir-nature.com/catalog/, last year, it was possible to rent it: it is in fact about a renting with call option; ask his doctor for a prescription for 4 months (or for the duration of feeding ). The coute renting 200 , reimbursed by the s cu in qqs euro near, and then the breast pump belongs to you. And it is of the great breast pump, doubles very efficient pumping.
Then clothes first month, I found ca useless, mine have ete there pyj (or body for the big who is born in June, 2006 in the scorching heat).
Security blankets, not bought, they accepted from it in presents (a lot except THE security blanket which they chose, she that it had been even chosen to us and they a bit forced so that they choose it)
And then word of advice clothes: 3 months, 6 months are accepted LOADS OF presents in size.. do not hesitate has change them for one bigger: 3 month they will carry it to break everything 2 or 3 months. Then useless to have 8 pink dresses in 3 months (it was my case for my big, but since it was in period of pays, I could not change them, and she practically did not put them, because too warm in July, she was in layer or in body, and cold in aout, I took out trousers). One or two dresses in 3 months ca be enough, 3 or 4 trousers, qqs bodys and T-shirts. on the contrary, you will be very happy not to have has buy everything back when you are going to cross 18 in month or in 2 years.
My 2eme spitz is 15 months old, I have anything has buy for this ete, it is everything of changed presents (or presents that was made me because I had asked of for big size!)
OK, grieved for this paving of advice, but if ca is possible serve!
The reimbursed breast pump, it is indeed brilliant. There is a boutique in 15th, Native Services, who rents full of equipment of childcare and who must of the must, the book in all Paris + inner suburbs FREE (if, yes!).
Personally, ca saved me life and avoided lugging me around with tiny shrimp in transport!
For me the necessary is the CUSHION Of FEEDING. Not only he embeds Bibou well when I nurse him but also, in my case, he replaces the transat where Bibou tolerates no more than 5 minutes. It loves remaining coiled in the cushion to notice the world.
Otherwise, it is not the equipment of childcare but they also invested in a good CAMERA to immortalise all its first times.
to come back on him door bb Chocoladdict, I recommend you the bjorn baby, he is a bit expensive but really great for abim s backs as mine, and in more for one 2eme child it is really. necessary!!
Otherwise me I still prone and always sterilisation dissatisfies some there. My flea made the surement lily of the valley further to a not sterilisation of bib, and really I will have gone without it! this lasted 2 months, 2 months of pain and of howl!
Then for us, really necessary: layers and clothes.
For feeding, nothing to buy apart perhaps from some cream to the lanolin since I have already had the equipment on me 

Necessary: scarf of porterage or baby carrier respecting the physiology of the bb and of the bearer portrays door - calllin or sling. Cushions of feeding (washable it is more economic / ecologique).
Of the serum phy to wash the nose, the eyes.
An option for a cushion of feeding.
A bed with bars which was adapted vaulted of cosleeping car by withdrawing a side and they joined with our bed. (2 mattresses are made jointly liable by knack home: a tense sheet on mattresses to avoid that b bito is taken in an interspace.
turbulettes for winter.
The breast pump for me, this comes afterwards or in case of pip of feeding. this is part of my gear of working mom.
I agree enough with your list, and on the fact that a lot of knack is survend to us!!!
on the contrary the draining rack with nursing bottle I found this rather well
the carpet of awakening from 1 month served well me
and I also top up the cushion of feeding, and a comfortable great chair in the room of the chap
Yes, but I nursed, therefore not need of draining rack 

For the carpet of awakening, it is easily possible to knock up one with old ends of cloth. The scarf can also act as carpet of awakening at the beginning. If it is multicoloured it is at least an advantage. Not beep carpet discreet, but great of awakening!
What sorry, how??:!!!! A yes; I have to miss something her is enciente to you?????? waouhhhhhhh I am too happy!!! felicitations
Great useful this list! I the forwarderai to every new pregnant friend! My sister told me she had met you, cool! I come back from holiday tomorrow and am happy to find Paris. Eh yes!
I would say a small buoy in case of pisio or simply of points: I had just 2 points and I had great trouble and this buoy saved me life! the rest, I agree with you. The humidifier of air is a swindle in my gout, but any depend of the fragility of the baby I will also add fly it prorhinel baby in case of cold.
In your list of necessary, I will add:
- of course a pushchair really by taking the time to choose it (handles or handlebar? weight, breadth?)
- a hat for the baby, whatever is the born season
- two or three pairs of socks, to thread over or downstairs of the pyjama- -pieds; take rather cotton and very long socks, which cover legs up to knees (those of baby Gap for example), not very small adorable socks but that the baby will succeed very quickly in taking off!
- a fly-baby, rather in piles
- a special bottle brush to wash nursing bottles, it is no luxury
Really, up to the size " 6 months " including it is absolutely useless to dress a baby otherwise than there body+pyjama+gilet. It is better to wait for the size " 9 months " or " 12 months " to be delighted with dresses, overalls and others.
For gigoteuses, I recommend to buy one of winter and one of summer (yes, this exists!) and to have it a second given of every season to be possible wash the first one!!
On the contrary the bottle warmer is in my not necessary sense, I I made as in motherhood and I gave nursing bottles to temperature surrounding.
Useless to buy security blankets, they accept from it WILLY-NILLY in presents, and rather several than the only one.
As for the transat, in view of the fact that they use it only about 6 months, it is completely possible to buy one of occasion, for example on E-bay it is found in 10 euro
Good plan also, for three - first four months: before installing a bed in bars, blocking enough, buying a pasteboard cradle, in kit, to be taken up oneself, it is very practical and it is then possible to disassemble him and to slip him in the bottom of a boot or under a bed by waiting for BB2
will have you no link as the cradle about which you speak?
ahhh I again understood nothing!!!! jsuis desoleeeeeee
it is amusing because I note that there is so much opinion as persons :-)
at our place, the useful MOTIVE was found because the bb on the back wants to see movement, and lively colours this stimulates little, especially as a baby crosses most in his/her time on the back at the beginning (of transat before 3 months normally)
side BAG TO BE WRAPPED IN SWADDLING CLOTHES, I I find this great with the pocket thermally insulated for the bib of hot water (you do not have more than to top up the powder) or the small integrated mattress that you unfolds (yuk tables to wrap in swaddling clothes public places)
side GONDOLA, seems to me useless if not long itineraries: the auto seat or cockle 0 very well suits! (suddenly, exit pushchairs combi great heavy!)
CLOTHES, oh well I find that this contributes to the rhythm of day (v temt / bath of evening / pyj) and assistant to make differentiation day / night
Very good synthesis e-Zabel! It is a great shopping to forget list for nothing
I also, I am fan of carry baby, whoever am more practical they think!
For those whose subject equipment for baby interests, you can go to have a quick look at my blog B b ours (www.bebeours.com).
good synthesis. I have all this. Except the scarf, I still do not have p be made there. And then I have the back in stewed fruit.
Agreed for the garbage can with layers: here the layer goes live broadcasting to the domestic garbage can, just like that, this is not lying around for a long time
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